The thought of using a vibrator can be intimidating, especially for first-timers. Fortunately, these sex toys are designed to amp up pleasure and can be used alone or with a partner.
Start by stroking, teasing, and stimulating the top of the penis with the vibrator. Then move onto the clitoris.
Use it on the top of his penis
Many people think vibrators are exclusively for the clitoris and vagina but they feel good on a penis, too. A man’s penis has a number of sensitive areas that are orgasmic when massaged with a sex toy, including the head of the penis and the shaft. You can also use the toy on the scrotum or balls. Or, if your partner enjoys oral sex, you can press the toy against the lips during oral play.
For men, the first time using a sex toy might be a little uncomfortable, so start slow. If he says the toy feels good, try gently rubbing it along his erogenous zones, concentrating on one area for a bit before moving on. This can be a great way to build anticipation for penetration and arousal.
It’s important to remember that when playing with a sex toy, it’s always best to use lubricant. It helps reduce the risk of bacterial vaginosis or yeast infections and can make anal penetration smoother. Moreover, a dirty toy can spread STIs, so it’s important to clean the toy after every use. You should also avoid sharing a sex toy between partners, unless you’re both wearing condoms during sex. The usual rules apply, such as never letting a toy that has been in the anal go back into the vulva or the clitoris.
Use it on the clitoris
The clitoris is an incredibly sensitive area that can feel heavenly when stimulated with a vibrator. For this reason, it’s a great place to start for beginners, says POPSUGAR’s own toy expert Billy Fleming. He suggests using a bullet vibrator for this, as they’re visually less intimidating than other types of sex toys. He adds that once a person has become comfortable with the sensations of vibrators, they can begin to experiment with other erogenous zones, such as the thighs and nipples, for added pleasure.
Another way to use a vibrator on your partner is to run it up and down the length of their penis. This is especially effective if they’re using a clitoral stimulator, as it will stimulate the outside and inside of their clit. This can also be a great way to get them ready for oral sex.
The top of the penis is also an excellent area to explore with a vibrator, but it’s important not to push too hard, as this can cause pain and discomfort. If they are feeling adventurous, try running the vibrator around the head of their penis and up and down the shaft. This can be a deliciously intense experience for both partners.
Use it on the vulva
Using a vibrator on a woman’s body is one of the most pleasurable ways to get her aroused. It can be used on the clitoris, the vulva, and other sensitive areas. It is important to use a good amount of lubrication to ensure that the vibrations are not irritating. It is also important to wash the sex toy after each use to prevent bacteria from building up and possibly transmitting sexually transmitted infections.
If you’re new to using a vibrator, start by gently dragging it over your body, paying attention to the most sensitive erogenous zones. The nipples, breasts, and inner thighs are all great places to start. Then, move on to more intimate areas like the G-spot, clitoral hood, and labia. You can even put the vibrator inside your vagina if you have a dildo or a wand-style vibe. Just be sure to use a lot of lube and practice with different pressures to find what feels best.
Many women also use a vibrator to get orgasm during masturbation. The vibrations are much more powerful than manual stimulation. However, it’s important to find a place where you won’t be disturbed and make sure you are suitably turned on. For some, this means watching pornography, while others might need a romantic or erotic novel.
Use it on the testicles
If you know your guy is into testicle play, then you can use a finger vibrator or a male masturbator toy (like those carried at Adam & Eve) with personal lubricant on his penis to add some extra sensations to the tip of his shaft, the underside of the head (frenulum), and even his balls. Just remember not to twist his testicles, as that can hurt and he might feel weird about it.
Once he’s ready for more, you can move down towards his “backdoor,” the perineum, a sensitive area between the anus and the genitals. This is a spot that most guys love, especially if you gently massage and rub the area with your hand. A vibration toy with a low setting and patterns that include quick thuds might also work well here, as it can create an extra erection for him.
Of course, it’s important to communicate and clearly show him where you like it when you play with his cock. It’s a sensitive area, and while many men enjoy touch and stimulation on their dicks and anus, it might not be a thing for everyone. If he’s ok with it, you can use his vibrator against his nipples or neck during foreplay and on his G-spot, clitoris, or vulva during anal penetrative sex. You can also try a finger vibrator or a male vibrator on the base of his dick during spooning or missionary.
See Also:
