Men who love anal play enjoy the sensation of stimulating the area just below the sphincter. Stimulating the anus can feel intense and ecstatic, whether performed solo or with a partner.
There are many factors to consider when choosing a vibrating anal toy, like its size and material. Taking the time to relax and arouse your butthole can help you get ready to insert, making the anal sensations stronger.
Size
Men’s anal hole is smaller than a female vagina, which means it takes a smaller toy. As a result, most anal toys—like prostate massagers, dildos, and butt plugs—are slim and tapered for easy insertion. Prostate anal play can feel very intimate and is a great way to discover pleasure in the area surrounded by countless nerve endings. It’s also a great add-on to masturbation, foreplay, and partnered sex.
Because anal play is so new, there aren’t many options available for men, especially if you’re a beginner. That’s why we recommend starting small with a slim anal plug like the Rocks-Off Petite Sensations Pearls. This tiny dildo feels fantastic and is ideal for beginners. The b-Vibe Vibrating Anal Plug Triplet, on the other hand, can be used as a male butt plug or anal stimulator. It’s even splashproof, meaning it can join you in the shower.
Whether you choose anal beads or a larger male butt plug, we highly recommend using plenty of lube to prevent any irritation. And always remember to clean your anal toy regularly—especially after you use it for multiple partners. It’s important to avoid double-dipping, which is using the same sex toy in your anal and vagina—that’s a big no-no because the ecosystems of these areas are different. The best anal stimulators are easy to clean and made from hypoallergenic materials, like the nJOY Fun Wand.
Material
Men who prefer butt play can enjoy masturbation or even sex in the form of anal penetration with a toy that vibrates. This type of stimulation reaches deep into the prostate (aka the male G-spot) and is highly coveted. Anal play can also be intensely orgasmic and adds a new dimension to sexual pleasure for those who are already familiar with anal sex.
Men can choose from a variety of anal toys, ranging from beads to tunnel plugs and dildos. Some anal toys are made for beginners, while others have more of a challenge and require more experience. A dildo is often the best choice for those who are ready to make big anal penetrations, as it is more curved and can easily enter the anus, while an anal plug requires a little more courage to take in.
Another thing to consider is the material that the anal stimulator is made out of. Men should opt for a body-safe material, such as silicone or stainless steel, to avoid irritation and infections. These materials are nonporous and don’t harbor bacteria as easily as porous materials like PU, TPE, jelly or plastic. You should also choose a toy that is easy to clean and sanitize. You can use a wide variety of anal toys, but it is best to start with a small size and work your way up.
Shape
For some, anal play may not feel right or is too uncomfortable. To start, try something small and work your way up. A certified sex therapist recommends starting with a smaller toy and increasing your size as you get more comfortable with anal stimulation. And remember to use a good amount of lube! Your anus doesn’t naturally lubricate like your penis or vagina, so it needs extra help to feel soft and slippery.
Many anal vibrators come in a variety of shapes. You can find squirters, cock-shaped plugs and even prostate massagers. Some, like the Lelo Loki, are shaped to contour to the anal while others, like the b-Vibe Rimming Butt Plug, have a neck with rotating beads that sit on your sphincter and replicate the feeling of rimming your backdoor.
The most common type of anal plugs have a tapered tip with a narrow neck that allows you to insert the toy in between your buttocks. It’s a great choice for beginners because it’s easy to handle and doesn’t put too much pressure on the sphincter. Other anal toys, like the Thunderplugs Thruster, have a wider shaft that gives a full sensation while the Eclipse Tapered Roller Ball Probe gives you a more realistic anal dildo. And if you’re ready for an anal toy that speaks premium, check out the Satisfyer Heat. It’s a smart anal toy that can pair with your smartphone, has multiple vibration and massage settings and even pulses to the beat of your favorite tunes!
Stimulation
Anal stimulation is a fun and unique way to get orgasmic. Everyone has a butthole, and a little prostate play opens the door to an entirely new world of orgasms. Buttons, ring-style toys and other anal vibrators stimulate the P-spot, or anus, with intense vibrations, motion, and speed. These toys are incredibly orgasmic and are a toy of choice for many men – straight, gay, and otherwise.
When choosing an anal toy, you want something sturdy, smooth and made from body-safe materials. Whether you’re going solo or with a partner, the toy should also be easy to insert and remove with well-prepped hands. Many anal sex toys have specially shaped tips that ensure a comfortable, safe insertion. You’ll also want to find one with a wide base to keep it out of the rectum.
njoy’s Pure Plug Medium is a good anal plug for beginners. Its smooth teardrop shape makes it easy to insert, while its weight gives a satisfying sensation. And it’s splashproof, so you can use it in the shower too.
For those who are more adventurous, a prostate milker is another anal toy that uses intense vibrations and movement to get your butthole pumped full of love juice. But don’t let its intimidating name scare you away – this type of toy is just as easy to master as the anal plug.
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