Whether you are looking for anal stimulation or are simply curious, there are many toys designed to stimulate this pleasure zone. We spoke to sex educators and experts for tips on choosing the right anal vibrator.
Anal play is becoming less taboo as people across genders and sexual orientation discover its benefits. Just make sure to use plenty of lube to keep things smooth.
Size
While many people shy away from anal play, women and men alike can find intense pleasure in this region of the body. To help explore it, there are a variety of anal vibrators on the market—some curved, others more like dildos and even remote-control devices to alter speed and intensity. As with any sex toy, it is best used with lube for maximum satisfaction and safety.
A butt plug or anal ring with a flared base prevents the toy from getting stuck in the anus. It’s a great choice for those just starting out and want to try anal stimulation or for couples looking to add something new to their p-spot play.
Another option is a dildo with a slick, smooth texture. These can be inserted into the anus and offer intense stimulation, plus a textured design to stimulate the clitoris as well. It’s a good idea to start small and work your way up to a larger toy. All of the experts we spoke to recommended starting with a silicone-safe anal toy to avoid any irritation.
Material
There are a number of materials that anal vibrators can be made out of. Silicone, stainless steel, and plastic are common options. Choose one that feels good to you. You may also be able to find anal toys in various colors and shapes. Some are shaped like anal plugs, while others are more like a dildo or a prostate massager.
While many people enjoy anal play alone, some find it more pleasurable when combined with clitoral or vaginal stimulation. Anal stimulation can feel intense and powerful, but it’s not for everyone. If you’re nervous about exploring your backdoor, try pairing anal play with a clitoral toy, such as a clitoral ring or a vibrator.
A good anal toy is easy on the sphincter muscles, and it won’t slip too far up your anus. Look for something with a curved shape designed to hit your p-spot just right. You can also find anal vibrators that double as a dildo or as a g-spot stimulator. This type of toy can be fun with a partner, but it’s more comfortable for first-timers to try anal play alone, so you know your own body better.
Design
Many people have never experienced stimulation in this area of the body, and for those squeamish about touching their anus with their hands, or asking their partner to do so, an anal vibrator can be a great way to explore the area without causing any discomfort. They’re usually shaped like a dildo but with a hole in the middle, so you can insert them into your anal.
They can have rotating, pulsating or vibrating functions that you can control using a wireless remote. Some are designed to hit multiple areas of the anus for more intense pleasure. They can also be used for temperature play, so you can run them under hot or cold water to change the sensation.
Some models, such as the b-Vibe Triplet Vibrating Remote Controlled Anal Plug, are designed to be used as both anal and vaginal vibrators. They have a flared base to prevent them from getting stuck in your anus, and you can use the remote to switch between different modes. They’re also incredibly discreet, which makes them a great option for couples or solo use.
Lubrication
Anal vibrators can be used by any gender-identified person and are a great way to explore your backdoor. Penetrating the anus can be intensely pleasurable, and many people find that it stimulates their genitals differently than the vagina. There are plenty of toys to choose from, including butt plugs, anal beads, and prostate massagers.
When using an anal vibrator, make sure to have plenty of lube on hand. The anus is not as self-lubricating as the vagina, and it can be painful or uncomfortable if you aren’t careful. Start slow and use a lot of lube to get comfortable with the sensation, and always be aware that you can stop at any time.
When shopping for an anal vibrator, look for a toy that is made from non-porous materials like tempered glass or silicone. This will help prevent bacteria from growing on the toy. Also, look for a toy with a flared base, as this can help you avoid getting it stuck up your anus. If you’re not sure what kind of lube to use, try a water-based lubricant that is safe for condoms and latex or polyisoprene toys.
Safety
Women’s anuses are full of sensitive nerve endings and can feel incredible when stimulated, especially with a vibrator. Women of all ages and sexual orientations can experience an anal orgasm from these toys, whether used alone or during anal play with a partner.
When choosing an anal vibrator, always use a water-based lubricant. There are lubes specially designed for anal use (usually with cooling or numbing effects), but any lube that works well on your vagina should work just fine for anal stimulation. Be sure to apply enough lube that the toy slides easily.
Whenever possible, go for a silicone safe anal toy as these are the most beginner-friendly and most likely to stay soft and comfortable over time. Avoid anal dildos made of hard materials such as glass or metal, which can hurt when they come into contact with a woman’s anus. These dildos are also more difficult to clean and may harbor bacteria or even mildew.
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