With aging, lubrication can decrease, and orgasms may take longer to reach. Using a vibrator can help stimulate the clitoris and vaginal area to boost sensitivity and increase the arousal.
Arthritis in the hands and joints can make gripping vibrators difficult. Try a hands-free wearable toy that attaches to the fingers, making them easy to hold.
Clitoral Stimulators
The clitoral stimulator is the perfect tool for rekindling the libido in older women. It can be a powerful arousal tool in its own right, or used to enhance the experience of sexual pleasure in partners, especially when combined with internal stimulation like a vibrator’s tip. It’s a powerful tool for self-discovery and can encourage deeper intimacy between you and your partner.
One of the most popular clitoral stimulation vibrators is the Liberty. It’s made from a squishy, body-safe silicone that fits around your clitoris to boost your orgasm during masturbation and can be paired with an orgasm-inducing cock or dildo (like the Tenuto, which also stimulates your partner).
Another option is a wand massager like the Rose Rabbit. It’s designed to stimulate the clitoral hood and surrounding areas for an all-around vulva massage. It’s petite enough to fit into your hand and has an array of patterns and intensity levels. It’s also water resistant, which makes it a great option for shower play. The wand also has a warming function to make it feel extra smooth against less lubricated labia and clits.
Penis Stimulators
Women in their 50s and beyond often have trouble finding a vibrator that works for them. This could be because of rheumatoid arthritis or other joint pain that makes it difficult to grip objects or due to the fact that oestrogen levels decrease and vaginal tissue is thinner.
However, there are still options that can offer a good experience for these women. One option is the squishy body-safe silicone Fun Factory Manta. This is small enough to easily slip into a pocket or purse and offers an impressive six different speeds of intense vibrations.
The Enigma from LELO is another option. This dual G-spot and clitoral stimulator delivers “monster jam orgasms,” according to Rec Room. It also features two arms, a short one that sits on the clitoris and a longer arm that goes inside the vagina to stimulate the G-spot. It’s also easy to use and has a sleek design for easy insertion. Try it with a partner for an unforgettable bedroom session.
Joint Stimulators
Originally designed as body massagers, these sex toys can be a great option for women over 50 who want to enhance partner sex. They have a long body and intense vibrations to reach hard-to-reach areas without the need for gripping, perfect for those with joint pain that can often occur during menopause.
They’re also small enough to be discreet, making them an ideal choice for travelling or sexy encounters at home or out and about. They’re great for enhancing intimate experiences and can be used by both partners to get arousal going before intimacy.
Ideally, they’re made with non-latex materials and no phthalates, as these are considered to be toxic by the FDA. This enables the toy to be used by women who are allergic to these materials, which is more common for those over 50. As the toy vibrates, it stimulates the erogenous zones of both the clitoris and anal area, helping to increase arousal and boost libido. This is perfect for women who are suffering from a loss of desire and can help them re-discover their pleasure.
Poco
While sex toys for older women have made fleeting appearances on TV, a major storyline in the latest season of Grace and Frankie has catapulted this topic into uncharted sex-positive territory. The series follows the unlikely roommates as they concept, prototype, focus group, and test their Menage a Moi vibrator for generating arousal. The product, which was created by prop master Emily Ferry, a postmenopausal woman, is aesthetically pleasing, rechargeable, sexy, and discreet.
This global best-seller feels soft against the skin and is whisper quiet, making it a perfect incognito bullet vibrator. It offers eight pleasure settings and is easy to maneuver with its lipstick case design.
A great gift for both you and your partner, Poco can also help close the orgasm gap and boost sensations for amazing partnered sex. To maximize its effect, it’s important to use a good quality lube like this one from Sliquid Organics, which simulates your natural lubrication and is safe for use with all toys. The formula is also paraben-free and made with organic hibiscus, green tea, and sunflower seed extracts.
Roam’s The Wand
It’s a bold move to base a major plotline on a sex toy on a TV show, but that’s the case with Grace and Frankie, which returns for its fourth season Jan. 19. While sex toys have made fleeting appearances in other shows, to make them the focus of a main storyline—and one designed by postmenopausal women—is on another level entirely.
This wand vibrator ticks all the right boxes. It’s discreet, compact and rechargeable—with a battery that lasts up to an hour—and it offers multiple pulsation patterns. Plus, its curved design sits internally and externally for G-spot and clitoral stimulation. It’s also a great option for couples, as it can be operated remotely via an app on a smartphone, no matter where you are in the room.
The wand’s smooth, butter-soft silicone head feels lovely against the skin and has an array of vibration modes to play with. It’s 100 percent waterproof, too, and can be used in the shower or bath. It’s the ultimate accessory to take with you on a romantic getaway.
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